Men are visual creatures and it is important to look good, but never mistake looking good with dressing trashy. If you have too much cleavage, thighs, butt exposed you are trashy and that is bad news because there is a basic question that every man will ask himself in the first few interactions with a woman. The question is, is she just a bit of fun or potential life partner...The way you dress and respond to him will determine which category you end up in. So how can you make sure you end up in the right category? Follow these simple steps.
1. Always dress classy, make eye contact and smile if he looks your way but do not approach him first.
2. Be very confident and funny/ ask questions which are not typical of a first meeting.
3. Make no sexual references and if he does politely tell him you do not have those kinds of conversations with people you just met. Do not have sex with him until he gets to know and love your character.
4. Do not call him before he calls you after a first date.
5. Wait for him to set the calling, texting, and emailing pattern. Let him be the leader early so you don't end up doing all the work in the relationship.
6. Do not be afraid to be yourself and state your true opinion in discussion. A man who will fall for you must know the real you.
7. Concentrate on each moment you are together and have fun instead of focusing on how he feels about you.
8. Do not create a relationship in your mind before you guys are in relationship mode.
9. Set high standards for being treated with respect, kindness and common courtesy.
Remember if you do not believe within you that you are an amazing woman and one who any man would be lucky to spend the rest of his life will, no one else will.
Every successful couple remembers their first date like it was yesterday. Whenever either party talks about it, a sense of nostalgia takes over and it's as if the date happened 5 minutes ago. Some first dates are last dates. Some first dates are just another reminder of why you intend to stay single as long as you can. Most first dates do render some sort of memory, good or bad.
The atmosphere for a first date should be something to remember. Whether it's an authentic bar in the Fort Worth Stockyards or a classy rooftop restaurant in Sundance Square, there has to be character. This character will indeed bleed over into your date and help create the right mood. Be picky about where you go, because you don't want to tell your kids you met grandma for the first time at a Chili's over an El Presidente.
Depending on where you end up, you should always dress the part. Wear something that makes you feel like YOU! There is nothing worse that going on a date with someone and thinking they are super clean cut, only to find out they wear black lipstick on the weekends and consider themselves both. When you look into the mirror before leaving for your first date, make sure you are representing the real you.
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